I had been single a long time. And at about 5 years into single life, I got frustrated with the situation and I began learning from dating coaches online. Here in this article I share some things I have learned from focusing on this area of woman and dating for the last few years.
There's a lot of pressure on us dudes. Every guy has felt it: pay for the dates, have six pack abs, and you're expected to approach her and make the moves, and do it gracefully, lest you be called a creep.
And there's pressure on women, too. I've heard, "Women are socialized to be sex objects, Men are socialized to be success objects".
Time flies! Until one day you're 42 and going, "Wow, I've learned a few things". Here's a few things I've learned...
"Look At Their Body, Heart and Mind"
I actually heard this in a whisper one day while I was checking out a woman on the bus. I was only looking at her body...
In looking at their heart, you're looking at their quality: are they more emotional, fiery, or more serene? Do they have a big heart that thinks a lot about others a lot, or are they more self-concerned? And look at their mind too: are they more broad-minded and open-minded? Or do they think in more narrow, repeating ways?
Hi, I'm Donovan Giraud. I'm a health coach, meditator and visionary. I'm on a mission to help people heal themselves and evolve our world.